EmpowermentDevra Ochs

Let Silence Do the Heavy Lifting

Silence is a gift that we give to ourselves and to each other. Cultivating a practice of silence and purposeful pauses is a powerful skill that can help us create beautiful and in-tune moments of true revelation.

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Let Silence Do the Heavy Lifting
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Thoughts to Consider

The hardest thing to do is change my mind. “Faced with the choice of changing one’s mind and proving that there is no need to do so, almost everyone gets busy on the proof.”

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Know Thyself

Creating or recreating a personal vision statement has never been more important. Thinking about the kind of person that we aspire to be and what kind of life we wish to lead can point us to our north star.

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Learning How to Learn

Learning anything new is challenging. This is because the new things we’re looking for in our lives are not inside what we already know.

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Learning How to Learn
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5 Things I Know for Sure

Learning is a skill that includes what you don’t want to experience…emotions, fears, and breakdowns. To learn is to know how to have a relationship at your edge of discomfort.

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Value, Satisfaction and Meaning

Asking a central question, “What do I care about?” is a way to orient ourselves to this reflection. The reason this question is so important is that value, satisfaction and meaning come from the care in our lives.

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Value, Satisfaction and Meaning
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Coping and Our Well Being

A puzzle is set before lead officials and counselors of a royal court in ancient India. The ruler decides to test the wisdom of the advisors and his men.

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Coping and Our Well Being
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Emotional Prison

In essence, we’ve created an emotional cell that makes us feel trapped. Very often it’s because we have become attached to a particular outcome or identity.

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Emotional Prison

Go Slow to Go Fast

As business owners, community leaders or concerned citizens, it will serve us well to go slow to go fast in the “Great Restart” of our lives over the coming weeks and months.

Go Slow to Go Fast

Finding our Way in Uncertain Times

Bill Burnett and Dave Evans, authors of “Designing Your Life: How to Build a Well-Lived, Joyful Life,” speak to the concept of wayfinding: “Wayfinding is the ancient art of …

Finding our Way in Uncertain Times
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Dear Friends

Know that I understand what you’re feeling because I’m feeling it too. I’m managing my own anxiety and trying to figure it out as I go.

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Dear Friends
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“Power To” Versus “Power Over”

“A fish rots from the head down” implies that an organization’s leadership is the root cause of any failure.

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“Power To” Versus “Power Over”
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Holding Opposites

As the end of the year approaches, I want to thank you for your readership and continued support.

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Holding Opposites
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Food for The Brain and Balm for The Heart

“Linda Ronstadt: The Sound of My Voice” – If you’re a fan of American singer Linda Rondstadt, you don’t want to miss this 2019 movie documentary.

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Food for The Brain and Balm for The Heart
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"Life can only be understood backwards; but it must be lived forwards"

When we embark on the grown-up tasks of finding a mate, establishing a career, parenting and growing old, we’re left to our own devices.

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"Life can only be understood backwards;  but it must be lived forwards"